Category Archives: #Inner-drive

The Power of Posing

Welcome to the power of posing post. I am Susan Lewis. Body language and the power of presence is interesting to me.
Amy Cody spoke in the TED Talks that was published in October 2012 . The following video is Your Body Language Shapes Who You Are.

Specifically, the details are ~ can the affect of testosterone and cortisol levels in the brain make us feel more or less confident. Watch the YourTubePlayer clip . Judge for yourself as you hear and see the possible impact on your chances for success.

I’m fifteen minutes into playing this video. The realisation of just how powerful those “sit up straight….” or ‘close your arms’ and you are in my domain now has been on my own life.

World, move over! cause I am expanding my horizons.

Check after 15 min.   You will see what I mean. Fake it til you make it seems … so fake.  But I got the message loud and clear.
Have I got over the ‘I am not meant to be here feeling ?’ that has dogged me since 1991 when the truck hit the Nissan Urvan I was driving.
I am here. I have a purpose to accomplish.  I have become that purpose.  Which also explains the mindset changes that are finally dominating my approach to life.
That is what metastories are about in the modules of SFM.  Becoming that purpose.  Tiny tweaks = BIG changes. The changes in the person also show in the way the blogs are written, decisions made and are stuck too.  Maximising this within the online presence where the energy is seen, felt and listened too..
Recently wanting to know more about banners such as the one below it was fascinating to read reports about the square one’s did this and the rectangle ones brought forward that type of action. Compared to the skinny tall and the flat horizontal ones. Right to that reading I tended to favour the insignificant skinny tall’s and skinny flat ones.

My Banner

After seeing the “Your Body Language Shapes Who You Are [ aka the power of posing video] the same may be said for the choice of button a person chooses to have in their post.

“Are you in agreement” now sounds far more positive than begging the answer of ‘Do you agree ”



Heading For The Street Corner

Exiting a building and heading for the street corner in 2014 I waited.

The sun was shining, the wind had calmed. I waited. It felt like I was walking amongst the clouds. As though my inner child was racing around laying in the cloud tops. That the world was at my feet.

Right before exiting that building a phone call had been made. The man in the building was worried.

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Using the tools to make a difference

Without what people perceive as the proper tools to use, the newest, flashiest things and gadgets and fashion fads, people become used to being at the “back of the race.’ From this point they
then get on with producing mediocre ‘things’ with little ambition or confidence to share the ‘indigenous creative’ energy.

Inclusive circles of influence of friends, coworkers, families, forget to ask or even see the results.

Telsa experimented with how to harness electricity. Thomas Edison was responsible for selling the idea through out the world that become the electricity companies. And somewhere in between a light bulb was created. By giving Alexander Graham Bell, a “prototype meant”  a viable, functional development of the telephone industry was to begin.

Relearning to go to the top of what you are doing takes guts, determination, and considerable effort. Starting from the unease of just knowing there is a piece missing, then several pieces. Taking that jump into a set of tools. There uses and not knowing how to use any was [always is] a large jump.

More of the tools and applications were being released into a Beta mode [ testing mode].

The invitation to ‘come and play with Th meant ‘fabulous freedom to muck things up’ – or fail forward – was incredible. The underrated amount of ‘subliminal learning power’ of knowledge gained
in this flexible play mode was out of this world. In all honesty, the brain does not realize how much it absorbs within simple explorative play.

Now mearly eighteen months from the Beta testing time all these concepts are coming together. Other than the fact of Autisitic Post-Traumatic Shock Sydrome occurring from a truck plowing in
through the front of the van I was driving. Having to relearn everything through the Autism Meltdowns, Overloads and blockages have been an amazing journey at times.

These are the experience that give me the authority to speak with knowledge of total memory loss for nearly twenty-three years.

One result you are able to see are the page tabs around you [ scroll up above] Look at them. Hit all of the tabs – one after the other.
Just before the Beta testing occurred a friend was explaining how to upload a picture using the tools and platform known to them. The next step was to put words on it. Bored at this end I ‘drew’ my first online picture. That simple act caused friction.

Now with the Beta Testing of the GraphixCreator came simple instructions. Upload your own or create using the supplied background. Add words. Use navigation bar tools. From there it was a matter of choosing a GraphixCreator frame, naming the frame, uploading that picture onto the work area. Add letters. Hit finalize. Download. There was the final result.

When I ran into any new areas where knowledge needed to be flexed and connected the quick note [ and accompanying Jing screen shoot video to support brought a neutral support answer. No ‘misinterpretations’ with a circle of influence friends.

There was also a challenge within my writing. Primarily that of having a post follow rules of reader engagement…. staying on one topic. Presenting the final copy with correct grammar and no spelling mistakes was another. Bring in an environment with training; upskilling was great. Add to this the coaching, mentoring, training library and just support from all over the globe 24 / 7 was marvelous.

Finding out the difference between a letter and an affiliate marketing post has paid dividends. This is an informative letter format.

Again this reinforced the basic fact that there were people out there you can trust. There are others to whom you can give your trust.

The lesson from all of this was find a community of influence and go within.

The SFM Community is trustworthy. These people are up to date with the current trends and ccompliance procedures. These affiliate marketers have to be as that is what many are out there
creating An alternative digital lifestyle – full time.

With this knowledge gain, people within this community are encouraged to be like Thomas Edison. To share a piece of knowhow in order to make greater things possible against the probable

To quote ‘LuxQuotes’. “The goal isn’t about money. The goal is living life the way I want to.”


Thank you for reading this letter.